tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11850330.post1119947519571397442..comments2023-08-03T04:54:54.068-04:00Comments on Abacaxi Mamão: Sibling abuse statisticsAbacaxi Mamaohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06604184268628243496noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11850330.post-2705110944478576832011-08-31T14:09:09.875-04:002011-08-31T14:09:09.875-04:00I certainly understand your problem, anytime I hav...I certainly understand your problem, anytime I have dealings with my brother I find my level of aniety goes up. Now that both my parents are gone. I am really free of him as long as her stays in California and me in Arizona. Take care of yourself!Our Familyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16141128028332014971noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11850330.post-36611216271365741442011-08-31T14:07:29.234-04:002011-08-31T14:07:29.234-04:00Thank you for all of your comments. I'm sorry ...Thank you for all of your comments. I'm sorry that I never responded sooner. I don't know if there is a web site dedicated to this problem or not. If anyone knows, please post it!Abacaxi Mamaohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06604184268628243496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11850330.post-19206944471099877542011-08-31T13:48:32.107-04:002011-08-31T13:48:32.107-04:00I was physically/emotionally abused by my older (1...I was physically/emotionally abused by my older (10 years) brother as a tiny child. He was to me, a giant, and frequently acted upon his impulses to smother, restrain, and even choke me. <br /><br />As an adult, he and his son were diagnosed with an impulse disorder. He has since learned to assault and threaten others with his advanced study of martial arts. <br /><br />I still seem to be first on his list of victims, as I often cannot attend family functions without being forced backward across a room, yard, or hallway with the threat of his flying hands and feet.<br /><br />Around five years ago, the man went into one of his violent 'stances' at his first sight of my (then) girlfriend. She was frightened and confused by his behavior, and I have subsequently let loose with a flood of heretofore unrecognized anger and fear of my brother. <br /><br />This has been utterly devastating for me.<br /><br />I no longer have contact with him, but my depression and angst have become unmanageable to the point of total disability.<br /><br />Can I completely blame him for my present state? I can never be sure, but this does at least illustrate the potential long-term effects of sibling abuse.<br /><br />Is there a web site dedicated to this problem?Anon Zhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02119285875555755138noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11850330.post-67995519831110066252009-12-20T19:21:08.135-05:002009-12-20T19:21:08.135-05:00My big brother pinched my noise and covered my mou...My big brother pinched my noise and covered my mouth when the brought me home from the hospita after I was born, to try and make me stop crying. They say I had fingernail marks on both sides of my nose. Every day until he left when I was 16 was torturous. And yes, I went straight into an abusive relationship with a man. Now I am 60.. I realize what happened to me. I want my life back!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11850330.post-77096427503973586792009-04-10T22:55:00.000-04:002009-04-10T22:55:00.000-04:00I too, have been evolved in sidbling abuse and was...I too, have been evolved in sidbling abuse and was a victim of it , even up to adulthood when I was hit, slap and literary torture by my molder brother who to this day gets away with it. HIs excessive behaivor and his frightening use of force has effected most of my life. I currently writing a journal on the subject and trying to help myself throught it. As a father I look very carefully at my three daughters in hope this type of behavior never shows in them. What is even more frightening is he still lives with my mother and he is 57 years old. Sure love talk to someone who has had simular experences.<BR/><BR/>Mark BeaumierAbout us:https://www.blogger.com/profile/14899629906451494835noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11850330.post-14498364138609057652008-02-04T16:38:00.000-05:002008-02-04T16:38:00.000-05:00Make this public. To many parents look the other ...Make this public. To many parents look the other way.<BR/>My mother let my younger sister get away with every thing. It only stopped when my dad finally figured out the physical abuse was happening.<BR/>A lot of abuse occurs when in the presence of one of the parents and not the other. Th manipulative parent makes sure the other parent is not present.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11850330.post-60575285068327887432007-12-01T15:01:00.000-05:002007-12-01T15:01:00.000-05:00Good work! An excellent summary of the available ...Good work! An excellent summary of the available information.Ghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07884703554609665110noreply@blogger.com